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Who do you admire or look up to and why? This is a question I was asked recently during a Bible study I was going through. It’s a good question and the more I thought about it the more I was surprised by the answer. Let me explain.

My first thoughts were to those over the years who have been my role models in life and ministry; people who have encouraged and invested into me, my family, and my ministry; people who have taught me by both word and example. I am blessed to have several people like that in my life and I certainly admire and look up to them. I am grateful for them. I hope you have people like that in your life as well and that you are trying to be that person for someone else. It’s an intentional process and it’s rewarding on both sides.

imagesI thought about these people in my own life as I wrote their names down and thought of all the ways they have and continue to bless me, but then something else began to happen. This is the surprising part. I began to think of my children, but instead of considering the ways I might (or might not) be a blessing and encouragement to them I thought of the ways they are a blessing and encouragement to me. In that moment I realized that I admire my children and that in many ways I look up to these that have spent their lives looking up at me.

First of all I admire my son Randy, he’s about to be 16 and is the oldest. As I sat there that morning I thought of all the ways I admire him. He’s a good kid with a good head on his shoulders. He doesn’t just think about the moment but the future also. He has goals and plans and he works towards them. Boy, I wish I had had that kind of resolve when I was his age. He stays focused, stays out of trouble, and makes good decisions. He is a fine and responsible young man.

Then there’s Elizabeth who is about to be 14 (where does the time go?). She’s my oldest daughter and my middle child. I’m a middle child myself so we kind of share something there that no one else in our family really gets. We don’t talk about it much, we just know. I admire Elizabeth because she just may be the kindest person I know. She is always thinking of others and putting them first. She’s quiet, gentle, tender-hearted and never complains about anything.

And last but not least there’s my daughter Carly who is 8. She is still young and sees the world through the eyes of a child. The thing about Carly is that she loves life and lives it to the fullest. She is always full of joy, is very outgoing and knows how to get the most out of every minute of every day. She loves to be outside and sees the awe, the wonder, and the majestic in everything. She also keeps us laughing all the time, “never a dull moment” as they say.

The greatest thing about each of them, however, is their love for Jesus. I can walk into their rooms and see their Bible’s and devotion guide’s out and I know they’ve been reading them. I see it in the way they treat others and the ministries they’re involved in, and I hear it in their conversations and their questions. I am proud of and grateful for each of my kids.

I admire my children for who they are, each unique in their own way and each one reminds me of the kind of person I want to be.

And when Esau lifted up his eyes and saw the women and children, he said, “Who are these with you?” Jacob said, “The children whom God has graciously given your servant.” Genesis 33:5 (ESV)

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